Is this right?

MY HUSBAND WAS DIAGNOSED BIPOLAR MIXED. I'M BEGINNING TO BELIEVE HE IS NOT. HE IS ABLE TO TURN IT OFF AND ON. WHEN HE IS AROUND OTHER PEOPLE HE IS KIND AND QUIET AND SWEET. AND WHEN ALONE WITH ME, HE IS HATEFUL, CONTROLING AND TERRIBLE VERBALLY ABUSIVE. HE WILL TERRORIZE ME FOR DAYS AND THEN LEAVE AND WHEN HE SPEAKS TO ME ON THE PHONE AND WHILE IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS, SPEAKS TO ME REALLY CALM AND SAYS HE DOESN'T WANT TO ARGUE AND DOESN'T KNOW WHY I'M ALWAYS SO UPSET. HE'S NUTZ??!!!!!! I THINK HE IS JUST AN ABUSER. IT IS SO DELIBERATE AND CALCULATED. I'M PRETTY SURE THAT PEOPLE WITH B IPOLAR CANNOT CONTROL IT LIKE THAT. ITS LIKE HE WILL BE SO MEAN TO ME AND VIOLENT . LEAVE, CALL ME FROM A FREINDS AND ACT LIKE HE HAS NO IDEA WHY I'M UPSET WITH HIM. ITS AMAZING AND THEN HE'LL BE LIKE, "I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY YOUR SOO UPSET, WHAT IS WRONG?" ACTS LIKE HE IS CLUELESS AND TELLS HIS FRIENDS, I'M ALWAYS LIKE THAT. THEN AS SOON AS HE GETS AWAY FROM THEM, BACK TO BEING HATEFUL AND CALLING ME