My wife dosen't let me touch her!?

Stop with the and start caressing.The approach to any situation is key.As we all know marriages are never 50/50 sometimes 80/20,60/40 you know.Maybe a spicy vacation you know we get tired of the same scene the same approach.If not a vacation a nice hotel suite get her out of the norm,send the kids away for the weekend allow her to be stress free for a day or 2 and you will be rewarded.